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“And do not lie about the fact you are going on different dates.
Tell your date you have just started dating and have committed to give yourself at least three months before entering a new relationship.
But as Swiss Marc* reveals, “we behave the way we do because of the numerous rejections we have received from Swiss women.” Tijmens’ top tip?
“She would suggest meeting up only every two weeks, even though we didn’t live far from each other,” he says.
“This gives the man the green light to speak to you. Exacerbating the problem is the temporal nature of expats.
Swiss people may not be keen on making an effort when they know you are likely to move on in the near future, explains Tijmens.
“If you are only interested in sex or a one night stand, then the answer is one,” she says.
“If you would like to find a nice partner, then I suggest you date long enough to see whether your date has the qualities that you need in order to be fulfilled in a long-term relationship before you become intimate.” Flirt coach Peter agrees, saying that as long as both parties are happy, there is no Swiss-specific rule about whether you sleep together on the first date or after 20.
Alice*, a French expat in Zurich, reveals that although her Swiss boyfriend paid on their first date, he expected costs to be split 50/50 after that.